“Pssst! I think he’s a reseller.” She told the auctioneer. Before last year, I would’ve felt the same. I couldn’t be mad because I knew, though I may not have tattled, I would’ve shared her sentiment. But as I’ve sat behind my husband cheering him on as he’s learned so much in his new business, I’ve seen the other side of this fence unnecessarily put between us. His business just turned a year old this month and it’s been a fun whirlwind. The kids and I have enjoyed spending so much extra time with him as he always invites us along. Our oldest kids have benefited from the extras he brings home for them, be it a new coat, a dresser, a baby monitor, or a shiny trinket for his little girl. He’s sought out several single mamas to bless with items before he donates. He’s spent time with my grandmother while she adds to historical knowledge before setting out to an auction. He’s helped a widow get extra cash and clean out her attic. He’s received many emails thanking him for helping them find an item that reminds them of time with a loved one, or for a clean sale with a decent price. And when another person rushes for an item he wants at a sale, he lets them. See, the thing that this person and I didn’t know before last year, was that it has nothing to do with the profession, and everything to do with his integrity. Before I was a villager, I attended a school that had almost as many students in each grade as the entirety of our local high school. One of the good things about that was the constant opportunity to meet new people if you didn’t like the ones you already knew. The other side of the coin was that just like most areas, if someone whispers in the ear of another before they get a chance to meet you themselves, they might never want to. One of my friends at the time let me know that one of her friends didn’t like me. What she didn’t tell me was that she let the other friend know the same about me.